Happy Cinco de Mayo!

I know it’s been a while since I updated, but I needed a bit of time to process the plan as it was set forth at Colman’s last clinic visit to TCH.

Colman and I left early in the morning instead of going to Houston the night before. It makes for a pretty long day. Our first stop, as always, is the pathology lab so Colman can have his blood drawn. While we sat down to wait for his name to be called, I decided to take a quick stop into the bathroom, but I didn’t notice this until after the door slammed shut, of course.

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There was no way for me to get OUT of the restroom. Fortunately, Colman was only steps away playing his video game, but it took a while with me knocking on the door from the inside before he asked, “Mom, what’s going on?”

“There’s no handle. Can you please open the door to let me out?”

And he did. Phewf!

He was pretty absorbed in his video game. I’m surprised he even heard me. I’m hoping when they called his name, he would have said something, like, “My mom went into the restroom and never came out,” but who knows?

After they drew blood–No tears this time–we went directly to the 20th floor for Colman’s echo appointment. At this point, I had several texts and missed voicemails from Kevin appear on my phone. (My phone doesn’t work so well in the basement!) He’d gone out of town for court and lost his wallet.

I’m never really sure what he thinks I can do in situations like that, except say, “I’m sorry.” I mean, I wish I could channel Hermione Granger, wave a magic wand and make said wallet reappear back in his pocket or briefcase, but I cannot. I can’t even do a respectable English accent.

“What do you want me to do?” I asked.

“I don’t know. I have no cash. No way to get any cash. No credit cards. No ID.”

Yes. That’s what happens when your wallet goes missing.

“I can’t even get Rowan a package of Skittles at Liam’s ball game tonight!”

“There’s got to be some money lying around the house somewhere,” I said. But then I had to go because they were calling Colman’s name for the echo. On one hand, instead of Colman being annoyed during the echo like he usually is, he was worried about the fact that daddy had lost his wallet and pretty much relayed the lost wallet story to everybody we came in contact with at TCH, including doctors, nurses, and this girl in the background who did his echo.

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During the echo, I noticed that the thrombus had reappeared in Colman’s left ventricle, which is a bummer. Thirteen months of Lovenox injections twice a day for nothing. When we finally got in to see the cardiologist for our clinic appointment, she thought a good course of treatment for the thrombus would be to just ignore it, and I’m down with that. The injections are no fun.

Colman still has not grown or gained any weight. He’s holding steady at 42 pounds and his height was 3’11” (and a half).

The plan moving forward is to take Colman back to the cath lab. In the cath lab, they can measure his heart and lung pressures again. They also want to try closing the fenestration in his Fontan conduit. They’re not sure his heart will tolerate the closure, but they want to try it to see if they can get his oxygen saturation level up. They think that might make him feel better, therefore, he’ll eat more and grow.

Dr. Denfield also mentioned something called a metabolic cart. So far, they’ve only done this on children who are inpatient, but she felt there wasn’t any reason it couldn’t be done on an outpatient basis. The results of this test would let us know exactly how many calories Colman is burning throughout the day. This would help us get a better handle on Colman’s caloric intake and output and how much he needs to take in to sustain and grow. Right now, we’re estimating his calories like he’s a regular kid, then adding an extra 200 to 400 calories every day to compensate for his heart. But we could be in a situation where his body is burning more than he could possibly eat, which would point back to his heart and a failing Fontan.

I did feel better after my meeting with the transplant doctor. I asked her point-blank, “Are there any red flags that you see when you look at Colman’s case that would prohibit you guys from listing him for a heart transplant? Because you guys have to see it from my side. We’ve been set to go to MRB three times. And three times, it’s been canceled. Now, you guys want to close a fenestration on a kid with a history of high lung pressures and plastic bronchitis. And that’s just not done in the usual course of treating these kids. If y’all are going to kick his case, so-to-speak, I’d rather know that now so I can take him to another center and not waste any more time. And to be honest, Houston really works the best for me. I’m not fond of snow (Boston or Philly) or earthquakes (California).”

She assured me that they didn’t see any red flags, and they felt confident they would be able to list Colman for a heart, even with the antibody and collateral issues, when the time came.

“Let’s say you’re able to close the fenestration in the cath lab. How long do we wait to see if that works, to see if he grows? It’s already been two years. Your threshold for non growth is obviously very different than mine. What’s your time frame?”

“If the closure is successful, six months,” she said. “We’re getting pretty close to the upper limits of our threshold as well.”

“Do you really think this is going to work?” I asked.

“I don’t know,” she said.

We sat there for a minute.

“Do you have any more questions I can’t answer?” she asked, and we both laughed.

One of the nurses from the cath lab came in and asked if we’d be able to meet with the interventional cardiologist, Dr. Liou, around 3:00 p.m. because she needed to talk to us about the upcoming cath. Dr. Liou was just finishing up a case, which gave us about 45 minutes to grab a bite to eat.

Colman insisted we try to find this little mexican restaurant where we ate one time when Mimi was in Houston with us, and we ended up walking about five blocks in order to find the restaurant that was just one building over. He ate every bit of his bean and cheese taco and a whole bowl of nachos, which made it all worth it.

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We met with Dr. Liou that afternoon and we talked for about an hour and a half. I’m glad she’s going to be doing Colman’s cath. She’s been the interventional cardiologist who has done Colman’s two previous caths at TCH, and I have a lot of confidence in her. Initially, when the heart failure cardiologists broached the subject of the closure with her, she said, “Absolutely not.” Then they went to the head of the cath lab and asked him, and he said, “Absolutely not.”

Then they talked about it and she said she’d need to sleep on it. What she told me was that closing Colman’s fenestration could make him very sick again, and she wouldn’t want to be the one to make him sick. However, she concluded that closing the fenestration does not burn a bridge. We can always take him back into the cath lab and make another fenestration. Of course, that’s another surgery, another time inside his heart, another time under anesthesia. All of it has risks.

In speaking frankly with her, she doesn’t know that this is the answer, but there is a tiny bit of hope that this might actually help Colman and that’s what they’re all focusing on. She’s going to measure all of his heart and lung pressures again and see where we are. Then she’s going to occlude the fenestration with a balloon and wait, ten, fifteen, twenty minutes, all the while measuring Colman’s pressures. If she thinks his heart can tolerate the closure, she’ll go ahead and patch the fenestration.

But she warned me that he could get very sick again. This closure could totally change the hemodynamics of Colman’s heart. His plastic bronchitis could come back. He could get fluid build-up, ascites or protein-losing enteropathy. If he does get sick, she’ll go back in and either take the patch out or make another fenestration.

So we’re moving forward. If Colman’s pressures are high or they’re not able to close the fenestration, he’ll probably be listed for a heart shortly thereafter. If he’s able to tolerate the closure, then we wait and see if having higher oxygen saturations help him to feel better and grow.

Colman’s heart cath is scheduled for May 22nd, and he’s having the metabolic cart test right before he goes into the cath lab. He will most likely stay in the hospital one night after the cath, especially if they’re able to do the closure. Colman’s already let me know he’s not happy about the overnight stay in the hospital.

Little stinker.

Not long after we got home from Houston, I heard Kevin tell Liam to grab his sunglasses because he was going to need them for his ball game. Liam couldn’t find them anywhere.

“You boys need to keep better track of your things,” Kevin said. “You guys are always losing something!”

I had to stifle a giggle as I joined in the hunt for the sunglasses. That’s a little bit of the pot calling the kettle black.

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7 thoughts on “Happy Cinco de Mayo!

  1. Heather, we wish that you had been given more positive news. We pray for Colman and your family daily. He is a beautiful child, inside and out, and he has that sweet, radiant smile in all his pictures. Gary said to give Kevin his phone number, 656-8037, if he ever needs anyhing when you are out of town, cash, ride, etc. His cell is 262-8355, but he sometimes misplaces it. Lol

    • Thanks, Judy.

      The janitor at Kevin’s work found his wallet under his chair a couple of days later–after he’d replaced all of his credit cards and gone to the DMV to get a new license. LOL! And Kevin managed to get by with $14 in change he found in the console of his car.

      In telling his tale of woe at the baseball fields, one of the moms offered to give him $20, but he said he could get by with the change from his console.

      I will definitely give Kevin Gary’s number. Thank you!

  2. He’s a lucky little dude to have you for a mom! I honestly don’t know what to pray for other than whatever leads to the best outcome for Colman. Stay strong and keep being awesome! *Hugs*

  3. Hi Heather. I just joined the “followers” of your blog. I’ve read a few of your updates in the last year or so, and I have to say I am simply in awe of you, your strength, the strength of your love, and Colman’s. I am amazed by your ability to deal with this painful topic (I can only imagine) while mixing it with laughter. I don’t have the right words to say, nor the answers, but I believe you and your family will find them. Perhaps not having the words or the answers has been what has prevented me from joining the followers before. I will watch and wait, expecting good news in the future, if nothing else but by the force of your will. I do know that miracles exist, and I believe there’s one for you and your family. Give my regards to Kevin, and know that there’s one more person “out there” who cares.

  4. Heather you ate so good at putting the words in your updates and its lovely to be able to share and understand your experience with your family…. So tough for you all! Ii loved the photo of Coleman eating his Mexican ( he looks so well ) i never know what he id going through, not sure i understand the whole story, but it does seem to be dragging out for you all you have all so much strength to offer..let us know if Kevin found hid wallet! And big hug to that brave little boy of yours xx

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